Let’s face it; breakup is one of the worst things humans go through in their lives. Each day, men’s heart goes in all vain and all they are left with some really painful memories. But, come on guys, it’s time that you come out of your comfort zone and explain your emotions instead of holding it within you.
Yes, it is no sort of a coincidence that men do suffer a lot due to breakups in some way or the other. Dear girls, they may post pictures of them showing that they are happy, but, deep within; they do feel tortured and go through hell at the same time.
Breakup Makes Men Suffer The Most- Science says so!
Even now, plenty of the people will say that men’s don’t suffer the breakup pain but this is not true. According to the recent study by the Craig Morris University of Birmingham, some interesting things came out. They said, “The man will likely feel the loss deeply and for a very long period of time as it ‘sinks in’ that he must ‘start competing’ all over again to replace what he has lost — or worse still, come to the realization that the loss is irreplaceable.”
However, there is still a certain sort of demerit to the actual statement. Whenever a relationship ends, the dreams of every woman shatter into a million pieces and they too suffer from breakup pain. Yes, they also dream of their future kids, their husband’s love and what not! But, on the men’s side, things are totally different.
Influence of Society
Well, we live in a society which doesn’t give sympathy to any man. Also, as a man, we are not taught how to actually deal with pain and sadness. Men are supposed to be strong always no matter what! Every time a man fails in a relationship, all they do is to drink, smoke and destroy their life more a lot. And, why? Because they can’t cry and express their emotions!
Further, as a sign of muscularity, a man who cries is not considered masculine by nature! I mean, who set this rule? Aren’t they humans and expected to feel the pain too?The society thinks that it is okay for a woman to cry but not for a man. Such a thing is truly not a “COOL” thing at all.
To say the least, breakup pain is worst and science considers it equivalent to physical pain. Hence, when a man goes through this phase, it is not going to be easy on his part. Also, showing to the world the masculinity makes the entire situation even worse. Gradually a man tends to become less expressive resulting in holding back the pain for a considerable longer period of time.
Now can you understand what’s the difference all about! So, next time you see a man going through all this pain, make sure to lend your support. Because even if they don’t ask for it, they need it deep within for sure!