We all know how to argue when we are fighting with the girl we love. But do you know what not to say? If not, then get ready and listen up because here is some wisdom for you.
Now I am no relationship expert but what I do know is that fights cannot be avoided for very long. They are inevitable. Fights are something that will happen with tome if you are in love with a person. Fighting when you are in love is normal. What sucks is when you let that fight become so much more.
You Should Know What Not To Say When You’re Fighting
I get it. Communication sometimes goes off the wrong way. It is impossible to agree on everything and that turns into fighting. However, when you are in a fight, avoid saying anything rude. Don’t get it yet? Let me help you out!! You must know what not to say and here I am telling you exactly what.
“We Are Done”
Oh, Hell To The No!!! You shouldn’t even say that unless you think that your relationship problems are beyond control. If you are in love, never give up on your partner because of fighting. That is the most immature way to handle a fight. You don’t just break up due to a fight, right? That can be solved with communication.
“You Are Nuts”
Well, calling the other person crazy just because they didn’t agree with you seems too small. This will only increase the relationship problems. Remember when I said you should know what not to say during a fight? This is what I am talking about. Instead, you could just keep your point and try to talk to them. Calling each other names and blaming each other won’t help for sure.
“Remember The Time When…”
This is something that girls love to do. Well, at least I know the girls who do that. Well, bringing up the past in a fight is just stupid. What are you trying to do here? Balance out the wrong that they have done to you? That’s not fair and that’s not right. Never say that or anything like that as a matter of fact.
“You’re This & That”
Well, we all insult the person we love when we are fighting. But then, is it worth it? I mean, what does it make you if you call your girlfriend fat and ugly after a fight? That makes a small person!! Avoid doing that.
Do You Agree With My “What Not To Say’ List?
These are some of the things that you should not say in a fight. When you know what not to say, you can solve a lot of problems by not saying those things. It will work out in the end, for sure.